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Saturday, April 19, 2008

Landscaping!


Ben took pictures with the fire department a few months ago and got them in yesterday. Handsome fire fighter isn't he??? Well I think so. :)

Ben has been loving it over at Station 3. The guys there are so personable with him. They have really accepted him and made him feel part of the family...fire family that is. The other station he was at had great guys, they just had different interests and didn't accept Ben as easily. We are a "peculiar people" and Ben really felt that there. He wasn't accepted because he doesn't cuss or drink or smoke. The guys at Station 3 don't care that Ben is LDS. In fact, they don't ever harass him about it at all. They have been talking to him lately about going riding on motor cycles. Most of them ride on the weekends. Ben would love to one day get a bike and go riding. Maybe once we get some things paid off we will look into it. But for now, its fun for him to just think about it.


Yesterday we decided to spruce up our house a bit on the exterior. Earlier in the week, Jerry helped us level out our front yard with some new top soil. Then we spread grass seed in hopes that we will soon have some grass!

We bought some new shrubs, flowers and a beautiful tree.


The tall shrubs are green luster Hollys.
The light green are Gold Mound Spirea. They turn an orange/red color in the fall and have pretty blooms in the spring and summer.







The tree is a beautiful Snow Fountain Weeping Cherry. In the spring it is covered in awesome white blooms. It will be really pretty next year!




The bush to the left is a Silver Queen Euonomymous. Then we have various colors of Asiatic Lillies (Red, pink and yellow which haven't bloomed yet.) Then in front are Brigadoon Hypericum plants.

To the right are assorted annuals...I wanted some more color..The rest of the plants are perinneals because I don't want to have to replant all the time.

Wednesday, April 9, 2008

Finding old friends and looking forward to vacations

This past week I started a Facebook account for Ben. I've been trying to get Ben on facebook for a while now and he didn't have much interest in it. Finally I added him and told him it would be a great way to catch up with old mission companions. Now Ben is HOOKED! Haha. He is so ecstatic over how many friends he has found.

Marilyn has hired 3 new employees for the Sleep Center. She has hired two part time and I guess one full time. The full time is absolutely GREEN to the field of sleep. We have to train her from the bottom up. So I guess she is my project before I get to leave. She starts on days this week and nights next week with me. Then the two part timers work in Shelbyville and want an additional night a week. So I guess they will each work one night a peice with the new girl once I'm gone. Marilyn says that definately by the end of May when Brittany gets here that I will be done. So that means 6 more weeks! I'm starting the count down!

Ben and I want to go on a vacation once I am done with Winchester. It won't be anything huge. Don and Ashley have been begging us to go to Knoxville. So we might go up there and get a hotel room and see the sites. :)


Oh and here are pics of the new hair as promised:

Thursday, April 3, 2008

April already?????!!!!?????

Working this many hours a week really makes time fly. I'm 24 already and don't know what happened to 23! It is such a good feeling to have the other house sold. I drove by there yesterday morning on my way home from work and saw their cars in the drive and they look settled in. I hope they enjoy our old home. We put a lot of love and work into that house.

Ben is being moved temporarily to station 3 which is over by the Nissan plant. They are needing to train some new drivers over at his fire hall so Ben got the boot. He is not terribly excited about the move. One of the guys he got hired on with is also being moved over there and this guy is so eager to please that he sucks up and offers himself and others to do things just to make him look good. He and Ben were there last shift right before they clocked out and he told the guys that since he and Ben were the rookies they would do everything! We'll see how that goes. Ben may just go crazy dealing with Nick all the time for the next couple weeks.

So I'm cutting my hair tomorrow! I can't wait. I'm going to get a short bob of some sort. I will post pictures after it is done. I am going to get some highlights and lowlights as well! We will see how it looks. I want something simple to fix with how many days and hours I am working!

Thursday, March 27, 2008

The sale is FINAL!!! We closed on our house Wednesday afternoon and the buyers close on the house Friday morning at 8 or 9am! I am so thankful that house is sold! I cannot wait to use that money to pay off debt!!! We have been so fortunate and blessed that the Lord has helped us make both mortgages! Now maybe I can focus on making my new home look the way we want. I still want to get some parlor chairs for the front reading room and a small table and lamp to go between them. We need to get curtains for all rooms! We would like to paint too...not sure how soon we'll get to that. Oh well... Our bigger concern right now is getting the front yard in order. We are going to get some topsoil hauled in and buy some sod for the front yard. Ben wants to do some landscaping as a center piece for the yard so I have to figure out how we want to lay that out and then how much sod we will need. Fun stuff!

Ben is finishing his refresher course tomorrow then he will study a couple more weeks and try the paramedic test again.

Ben's sister Brittany and husband Jay are coming in for the summer and supposedly she is going to be taking my place at the sleep center. This will give me a summer "break", even though no one has discussed this with me. I keep telling them that once I leave...I'm not coming back. I need a break! So hopefully by the summer Ben will have his paramedic and get his second job like he wants and life will be great: I will go back to just 3 nights a week, Ben 24 on 48 off with SFD and then work an occasional shift once a week or so on an ambulance service...normalcy...that would be nice. :)

Wednesday, March 19, 2008

**WARNING** Rant Session

OK...I try to take most things in strides and brush off the bad and try to look for the good, but I believe this week I have had more than my fair share! So to update everyone I will share the good, the bad and the ugly.

THE GOOD: The house has a closing date of March 31st. YAY...God bless you Rusty for sticking in there with us! We have to fix a few minor things on the house and hopefully will be out from under that monster.

Ben has been able to work a couple shifts on the Service Co. He enjoys working on this truck because they do all the medical assists and wrecks in addition to the house fires. He told his captain that he loves working there and would be more than happy to transfer. The captain acknowledged his interest and we'll see what happens at the next transfer.

THE BAD: Ben is still extremely frustrated with the entire Paramedic testing program. His refresher course is coming up next week. I hope that this helps him out a great deal. We will see how it goes.

THE UGLY:
1. Monday afternoon I got a call from my friend Ashlie from work. She had spent most of the morning at the St. Thomas Orientation for employees. She was there with another girl from work who is being trained how to use our software and generally how we work at the sleep center. She was expressing to Ashlie how she was so nervous about our software and how she had never worked this program before. Then she made a comment to Ashlie that about made her chin drop to the floor. The girl said, "Oh well, I guess it won't be that bad. Mom says I will be ok because even a MORMON can do it." Ashlie said, "Excuse me, what did you say?" Ashlie knew that the only LDS person at work was me!

This girl's mother who said this, Karen, is a PRN employee that I have NEVER met. Karen's comment implied that people of the LDS faith are not smart, directly put my intelligence down and was inappropriately singling out the LDS faith in a way that doesn't even make sense to me. My religion has nothing to do with my intelligence level nor my work ethic and skills. How can you make a comment like that about someone when you do not even know them. My only conclusion is that this woman has worked with some people on the B shift who knew me and it might have been mentioned that I am LDS. She then might have known someone in her past who was LDS and she is now associating me to be just like that person.

I immediately called my supervisor and complained about how offensive her comment was, even if it was not intentionally directed towards me. My supervisor was shocked and said that none of the full timers have had anything negative to say towards me, which is nice, not that I really care how they view me. Paul said that he is going to handle the situation and speak with Karen about how she needs to be careful what she says and that she can not make blanket statements like that about anyones religion or gender affiliation. If she feels a certain way then she and her daughter need to keep their views at home. I have recently learned that Karen used to be a teacher at Vol. State and she likes to take her book smarts and use it in a way to make herself feel as though she is intellectually elevated above those around her when in actuality I have heard she is horrible in the application of those thing in which she feels so intellectually advaced in. If there is one thing I will defend it is definately my intelligence. I have worked very hard for my credentials and me degree. I'm not the quickest learner but I am good at what I do and my work reflects that. My patients speak highly of me and the doctors have nothing bad to say so she can take her comment and shove it!

2. I came home this morning, unlocked the front door, went to the back door and called for my dogs...they didn't come. I called and I called and I called...no dogs. It was pouring down rain so I walked outside to try to coax them in...my dogs were no where to be found. No holes under the fence where they got out. No damage to the fence. The lock was still on the gate...so where were my dogs? I panicked. I ran through the entire house calling and searching for my dogs in the false hope that I had made a mistake and left them inside when I left for work. No...no where. I called Ben in a panic and he told me to immediately leave the house and wait for him to get home.

Ben got home the same time the cops arrived and they searched the house. No sign of anything being stolen. Strange...The only thing missing were my dogs. No obvious signs of forced entry. The cops were baffled but told us there was really not a whole lot they could do. Ben and I briefly told them what had happened a couple weeks ago when a Kirby salesman came by at 9pm at night and giggled the door handle seeing if anyone was home...Not knocking...Not ringing the door bell...trying to OPEN my door. Yesterday a teenage girl came to the door while I was getting ready for work. I told her I didn't have time to listen to her because I had to get ready for work. I am just wondering if the saw my car leave and took the opportunity to poke around...but still why take NOTHING but my dogs?

While we were standing there talking hopelessly to the cops, I see a dog pop up in a yard 4 houses down...It looked like Sammie. I screamed for him and he came running. I was so relieved. I knew if Sammie was there...Surely Pepper was nearby. Ben went running down the street looking for her. He found her but she did not recognize him until he got very close to her. Once she recognized him she followed him back home. They looked scared and traumatized...We thanked the cops and they left knowing there wasn't a whole lot they could do to help us figure out why this happened.

We got the dogs inside and inspected the yard one more time...nope...no way to get out of the fence. The ONLY way the dogs got out was by the front door...so WHO came into our house and WHY did they do nothing, take nothing, and let the dogs out? We inspected the front door a little closer and noticed visible damage to the lock. We had a locksmith come by and replace ALL locks and add deadbolts to ALL doors. He had to completely replace the guts to the front door knob because of the damage from the burglar. Pepper has not been herself since today. She is acting very sore. She wont go upstairs without coaxing and she won't get on the bed without help, when she usually bounds and jumps all over the place. We are hoping that whoever came in the house did not kick or hurt her in any way. Thankfully Sammie is acting fine. If Pepper has not perked up by tommorrow then we are going to take her to the vet to get checked out for any internal injuries. We feel so violated after this incident. I just can't make sense of it. Why come into my house and the only thing you do is let my dogs run loose in the neighborhood? My dogs are well behaved. They do not bark that much; no more than any other dog in the neighborhood. Both neighbors to left and right have dogs....so they understand...sigh...I just don't know...

Saturday, March 1, 2008

Learning patience and understanding...or trying

We found out at the beginning of the week that Ben did not pass his paramedic exam. He felt so confident this time around that it came as a major shock that he did not pass. Ben has done everything he knows to do in order to prepare for the exam. Now he has to take a 48hr refresher course to be able to take his exam again. He is signed up to take one at Vol. State the end of march. We've been told by the EMS director in TN that Vol. State has an excellent program and pass rate. Hopefully this refresher will give Ben the edge he needs. Until then he is going to read every chapter, word for word, which covers his weaknesses. All we can do is hope and pray for the best. This is a goal and a dream, and once set, Ben will not give up till he reaches his goal. It doesn't help though when you really feel let down by your education. We were told that Chattanooga State has not had a very good pass rating over the last few years...if we'd only known...

Ben went out the other day and looked for a part time job in EMS. Most places are wanting Paramedics but Ben wants to get in as an EMT so that he can keep his skills up and pick the brains of current paramedics. He applied over at Spring Hill, TN EMS. It is a Rural Metro corporation, which is who he worked for in Franklin co. They seemed very positive about getting him on board and he met a guy there who has some pull in Rutherford county and he is going to try to get him on there as well. This would be a great blessing. Ben wants the second job so he doesn't go stir crazy in the house and I am getting very worn down working my 4-5 nights a week. So we hope to hear from them this coming week!!

Other than that, we are still trying to sell our house...
I am still trying to get out of working in Winchester...
And I am still trying to get everything settled here in the new house, but this thankfully is coming along nicely. :) We got our new sectional couch, so our loveseat recliner will be going on craigslist shortly, and we got our new bedroom set in today except for the footboard to the bed which was damaged. So my bedroom set will be finished this friday. As soon as everything comes in I will take some pictures. Now if I can only settle on curtains and eventual paint color...

Wednesday, February 20, 2008

24...

One more year older tomorrow. I can't believe how quickly time is passing. Things are going well for us in Smyrna. Ben loves his job and is greatful everyday to be here. We are still high off his passing his Firefighter II, and we just found out that they have posted openings for the driver position. This would be another pay raise. There are some requirements with years of experience, but Ben was told by one of his co-workers that volunteer experience counts. So Ben is going to apply tomorrow for the driver's position. Then Friday Ben takes his paramedic test. We have prayed so hard for him to pass this exam! I'm SO PROUD of Ben. He has studied so much for the exam this time around. He has been taking numerous practice exams in all areas that he will be tested and he has been making 70s, 80s and 90s. He feels confident this time and I know he will do great! Everything is falling in place wonderfully and God is blessing us once again! Once Ben gets his paramedic he will find a second job and we are going to hit our debt hard...time to pay this stuff off. Now if we can only get that dern second house to sell....anyone want a house in Winchester??? oh well.

We traded our truck in yesterday for a VW passat. I know I know...why did we do it...gas prices are horrible and in less than one year we have put 20k miles on my car. We had to do something to even out the miles and me driving the truck to winchester was just not economical. We had the truck appraised and found out we were not going to get as much out of it as KBB said and it would only get worse the longer we held onto it. So we found one dealership that gave us much more than we expected and we took the opportunity to get out from under the truck. We'll miss the truck though...I know Ben will especially. oh well.

Ben's sister Ashley is coming to stay with us march 1. She has a karate turnament in Smyrna. We will finally get to have guests and not be the guests. So Ben is looking forward to that.

I'm in my 3rd week at St. Thomas full time and I'm loving it. It is nice to finally have some consistent hours. My co-workers are wonderful and we have a blast. I never knew how much fun you can have working. I just signed up for our benefits and life is good. :)